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The Gottman seven Principles of Making Marriage Work

Marriage is hard…Divorce is harder!

Marriage can be tough. It takes work, patience, and love to keep a relationship strong. Sometimes, things get so hard that couples think about divorce.

But divorce is not easy either. It brings a lot of pain and stress, not just for the couple but for their families too. Starting over can be even harder than fixing the problems in your marriage.

That's where the Gottman 7 Principles of Marriage workshop can help. Based on years of research by Dr. John Gottman, this workshop gives couples simple tools to improve their relationship. You'll learn how to communicate better, solve problems together, and build a stronger bond.

By putting these principles into practice, you can overcome the tough times and create a happy, lasting marriage.

What you’ll learn

The Gottman Seven Principles Workshop draws from the acclaimed book, "The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work," a New York Times Bestseller. This workshop is built on the innovative research of Dr. John Gottman and Nan Silver, revealing the core principles that sustain healthy relationships. With insights gathered from over four decades of research and the experiences of 3,000 couples, this program offers practical skills and strategies for couples aiming to strengthen their bond and ensure long-lasting happiness.

Do you feel like the spark in your relationship has faded?

Are you new parents struggling to find balance and connection amidst the demands of parenthood?

Do your disagreements quickly escalate into major conflicts?

Is quality time together becoming a rare occurrence?

Have you thought about therapy but aren't ready for the weekly sessions?

If you answered YES to any of these questions, this workshop could be just what you need!

What are the Seven Principles?

Build Love Maps: Continuously expand your knowledge of your partner’s inner world, including their thoughts, emotions, preferences, dreams, and fears.

Foster Fondness & Admiration: Cultivate a positive perspective by appreciating your partner’s lovable qualities, and create an environment where both partners feel respected and adored.

Turn Toward Each Other: Actively engage with your partner’s attempts to connect and respond with empathy and openness, reinforcing your emotional bond.

Accept Influence from Your Partner: Embrace a balanced approach to meeting your partner’s needs and desires while maintaining your own, encouraging mutual respect and collaboration.

Tackle Solvable Problems: Address issues with a gentle approach, fostering open dialogue and finding practical solutions together.

Overcome Stalemates: Develop an emotionally secure space to explore and understand the root causes of ongoing conflicts, working towards meaningful resolutions.

Create Shared Meaning: Purposefully build a unique relationship culture with shared goals, values, traditions, and rituals that enhance your connection and sense of purpose together.

Meet your facilitator

Michelle …

Hi, I'm Michelle Chaffardet. I'm a licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and School Counselor, and I'm thrilled to guide you through the Gottman 7 Principles of Marriage workshop. Originally from Venezuela, I bring a warm and compassionate approach to my work.

I've completed the Gottman Method training because I truly believe in its power to transform relationships. I'm passionate about helping couples like you improve communication, resolve conflicts, and deepen your connection.

I want to help you build a strong, loving partnership because I know how important it is to have a happy and healthy relationship!

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Limited Time Only

full day program 2024 dates

9:00am-5:00pm

Saturday, September 14th

Saturday, October 12th

Saturday, November 9th

full day program 2025 dates 

COMING SOON!

Price

$300 Per Couple

$250 Early Bird Special

(Registered 15 days before the event)

Includes:

The 7 principles couples’ workbook (two copies) that allows you to privately record answers and journal thoughtfully about the concepts in the book as they apply to your relationship.

Is This Couples Workshop for you?

The Gottman Seven Principles Program is ideal for:

  • Couples in a committed relationship, including married couples

  • Those engaged or planning to get married

  • Pre-engaged couples considering marriage

  • Relationships at any stage, from newlyweds to long-term partners

  • Couples wanting to improve an already good relationship

  • Partners looking for better conflict resolution tools

  • Those interested in couples therapy but not ready for weekly sessions

  • Individuals of all backgrounds, ages, faiths, sexual orientations, and relationship types

*Please note: This workshop is NOT suitable for those dealing with emotional abuse, domestic violence, unwanted touch, or substance abuse. In such cases, we recommend seeking individual or couples therapy.

Space in each workshop is limited, so register now to guarantee your spot. Registration ends one week prior to workshop date to give time for all materials to be ordered.

First Responders, Military/Veterans, K-12 Educators ,  and Counseling Students/Interns - as a "thank you" for all you do, are eligible to save 10%. Please email info@vibewelltherapy.com for a special discount code. 

If you must cancel prior to three weeks before the class date, a full refund minus a $25 processing fee will be given.  For cancellations thereafter, you will receive credit good for one full year that you can use to attend a later class.

This is a psycho-educational class and is not a replacement for couples’ therapy.

Workshop Schedule

9:00 AM - 9:30 AM: Welcome and Introduction
9:30 AM - 10:30 AM: Principle 1 - Build Love Maps
10:30 AM - 10:40 AM: Break
10:40 AM - 11:40 AM: Principle 2 - Foster Fond & Admiration
11:40 AM - 12:40 PM: Principle 3 - Turn Toward Each Other
12:40 PM - 1:30 PM: Lunch Break
1:30 PM - 2:15 PM: Principle 4 - Let Your Partner Influence
2:15 PM - 3:00 PM: Principle 5 - Solve Your Solvable Problems
3:00 PM - 3:10 PM: Break
3:10 PM - 3:50 PM: Principle 6 - Overcome Gridlock
3:50 PM - 4:30 PM: Principle 7 - Create Shared Meaning
4:30 PM - 5:00 PM: Q&A and Closing Remarks

FAQ

  • No. The class does not include sharing problems or issues publicly. Couples exercises are done privately.

  • Since the class involves couples doing exercises together, both partners must participate. There will be a Singles version coming soon.

  • No. This is a psycho educational workshop focused on building skills, learning about relationships, and engaging in exercises with your partner. If after the workshop, you decide you would like to begin therapy, please contact me after the workshop.  

  • Yes. All couples are welcome. This may in fact be the best time to work on and build upon your relationship!

  • Currently, workshops are held live virtually through zoom. Couples will attend the workshop from the cozy comfort of their own home. 

  • No, you do not have to live in Florida to attend the workshop. The Gottman 7 Principles of Marriage workshop is available to participants from all U.S. states, as it is conducted virtually.

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